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Monday, January 3, 2011

Is It Normal for Baby to Cry for Hours Every Night

Is It Normal for Baby to Cry for Hours Every Night?
It's not breaking news that babies cry -- a lot. But when it's your baby, in your arms, screaming for hours at a time, you can't help but wonder if something is terribly wrong. "For the first three months, every night at about 5 p.m., Gavin would get really fussy," says Tricia Heiserman, of Bala Cynwyd, Pennsylvania. "You couldn't put him down. It made me depressed because I thought I was doing something wrong."
Nearly all babies, no matter how placid, get downright cantankerous as night falls and the "witching hours" begin. "Inconsolable fussiness between 4 p.m. and 7 p.m. is natural," says Benjamin Danielson, MD, medical director of Odessa Brown Children's Clinic, at Seattle Children's Hospital. This crying typically starts within the first two months, heightens between weeks five and eight, and is usually gone by the third month. While crying sprees are upsetting and inconvenient, they're entirely normal. Put your baby down for naps throughout the day to make sure he doesn't get overtired; if all else fails, try a walk outside, which many moms swear by for soothing cranky kids. You may be wondering if your baby has colic -- which Dr. Danielson says is a somewhat more intense version of the crying that most babies go through, and the same tactics that soothe a crying baby may soothe a colicky one.
And remember, it won't last forever. "Meredith cried for hours every evening from the time she was 7 weeks old, and we'd do anything to try and stave it off," says Caroline Warthen, of Greenville, South Carolina. "Then at 3 months, it ended, and all of a sudden we had a smiley baby."

How Stressed Are You?

This questionnaire will help you recognize some of the signs and see where you fit on the stress continuum. Score one point for each "yes" answer.
  • Do you have difficulty relaxing?
  • Do you often feel irritable?
  • Do you worry about the little events of the day, and find that you are unable to shut off your mind?
  • Do you smoke or drink excessively (especially by other people's standards)?
  • Are you competitive and aggressive?
  • Do you find it hard to relate to people?
  • Do you find yourself impatient with others?
  • Do you eat quickly?
  • Do you take on too much?
  • Do you have difficulty delegating?
  • Do you have aching limbs, tense muscles, or recurrent headaches?
  • Do you have a dry mouth and sweaty palms?
  • Do you feel a lack of interest in sex?
  • Do you have problems sleeping?
Scoring
1-5: Like most of us, you could use some practical ideas on how to calm down when challenges arise. Or you may want to reach states of even deeper peace. If so, read on for some inspiring ideas.
6-10: You are quite stressed. Pay attention to these warning signs. This is the only body you have. Treat it well. You'll see how to do this in the following pages.
11-14: You are very stressed. Clean up your act before there are serious consequences.

WHAT IS DEPRESSION?



Depressive is a mental illness that involves the body, mood and thoughts. It affects the way a person eats and sleeps, the way one feels about oneself, and the way one thinks about things. Depression is not the same as a passing blue mood nor is a sign of personal weakness.

TYPES OF DEPRESSION

Depressive manifest itself in different forms, but there are three common types of depression. However, within these types there are variations in the number of symptoms, their severity and persistence.

1. Major depression is manifested by a combination of symptoms that interfere with the ability to work, study, sleep, eat and enjoy once pleasurable activities. Such a disabling episode of depression may occur only once but more commonly occurs several times in a lifetime.

2. Dysthymia is a less severe type of depression. It involves long-term, chronic symptoms that do not disable, but keep one from functioning well or from feeling good. Many people with dysthymia may also experience major depressive episodes at some time in their lives.

3. Bipolar disorder, also called manic-depressive illness. Not nearly as prevalent as other forms of depressive disorders, bipolar disorder is characterized by cycling mood changes: severe highs (mania) and lows (depression).

SYMPTOMS OF DEPRESSION AND MANIA

Not everyone who is depressed or manic experiences every symptom. Some people experience a few symptoms, some many. Severity of symptoms varies with individuals and also varies over time.

DEPRESSION

* Persistent sadness, anxious, or "empty" mood

* Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism

* Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness

* Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that were once enjoyed, including sex

* Decreased energy, fatigue, being "slowed down"

* Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions

* Insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping

* Appetite and/or weight loss or overeating and weight gain

* Thoughts of death or suicide; suicide attempts

* Restlessness, irritability

* Persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment, such as headaches, digestive disorders, and chronic pain

CAUSES OF DEPRESSION

Very often, a combination of genetic, psychological, and environmental factors is involved in the onset of depression.

* Hereditary

* Environmental e.g. possibly stresses at home, work, or school

* Drug use and abuse

* Poor nutrition

* Psychological predisposition associated with one or more of the above combinations.

DEPRESSION IN WOMEN

* Women experience depression about twice as often as men.

* Many hormonal factors may contribute to the increased rate of depression in women, particularly such factors as menstrual cycle changes, pregnancy, miscarriage, postpartum period, pre-menopause and menopause.

* Many women also face additional stresses such as responsibilities both at work and home, single parenthood and caring for children and for aging parents.

DEPRESSION IN MEN

* Men are less likely to suffer from depression than women.

* 3 to 4 million men in the United States are affected by the illness.

* Men are less likely to admit to depression, and doctors are less likely to suspect it.

* The rate of suicide in men is four times that of women, though more women attempt it. In fact, after age 70, the rate of men's suicide rises, reaching a peak after age 85.

* Depression can also affect the physical health in men differently from women.

* Although depression is associated with an increased risk of coronary heart disease in both men and women, only men suffer a high death rate.

* Men's depression is often masked by alcohol or drugs, or by the socially acceptable habit of working excessively long hours.

* Depression typically shows up in men not as feeling hopeless and helpless, but as being irritable, angry, and discouraged; hence, depression may be difficult to recognize as such in men.

* Even if a man realizes that he is depressed, he may be less willing than a woman to seek help.